Sunday, May 13, 2012

Calling all questions

Wannabe counselor by day, waitress by night. Lisa needs your help!

I need YOU to make my hobby worthwhile.
Ask questions, leave comments, discuss topics, share your advice and life experiences with a varied group of people with a similar interest: Knowledge!


Leave your questions/comments in the comments section or email me privately at: ivebeen_there@yahoo.com

My Blogs:
Beginner Sex Advice
I've Been There (Personal Journal)
Teen Advice
Just a quick note on my name: "I've been there." While I've had my share of experiences (both good and bad), I do not profess to have all the answers, been in your shoes, or done it all.

Maybe think of this as more of a directed discussion than a lecture and hopefully we can all learn from each other.

Friday, May 11, 2012

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step

While I have studied many aspects of sexuality, it has been the initial confusion maybe that I identify most with. I remember what it was like having ZERO information to go on. http://beentherebfore.blogspot.com/2012/05/true-story.html
Part of me is still that 16 year old reading Kinsey Report for the first time.

My friends would always disbelieve every bit of info I tried to pass on, but who could blame them? Some of the things we all heard were wrong and sometimes dangerous. So once I got the nerve up to use the library copying machine (I wasn't going use my card to check these books out), they began to at least think I was mildly justified. Over the next few years I became the "go to" friend for sex advice. I literally had people call me in the middle of the night to ask my opinion on something.

Since my academic studies are on hold, I have to admit that I really miss it.